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20 Reasons Dads Matter

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  • Every kid (and adult) has a dad
  • Dads are staying at home in record numbers
  • Dads know something about raising boys
  • Dads get divorced and still want to be good fathers
  • Dads are gay
  • Dads want to end rape
  • Dads fight against sex trafficking
  • Dads suffer from depression (post-partum and otherwise)
  • Dads care about abortion
  • Dads feel the pain of infertility
  • Dads talk to their sons
  • Dads talk to their daughters
  • Dads lose a child
  • Dads lose their child’s mom
  • Dads go to prison (and sometimes change for the better)
  • Dads go to war (or to cover wars)
  • Some dads blow dry their son’s hair
  • Dads like to cuddle
  • Dads are beautiful
  • Dads love moms



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Why Our Boys Need The Good Men Project And More

We need to love our boys so they learn the power of their own love as husbands, fathers and men.

When you lose your identity, it’s called insanity. And for some men, manhood is their identity.

“It’s refreshing to see these guys take the public perception of parents into their own hands.”

The Unabashed Tourist Brings Her Lover to the French Quarter

Tom Gualtieri insists that DOMA and Prop 8 are bias laws without basis in the U.S. Constitution.

Poet Robert Peake asks us to look at war, nihilism and love to start the healing.

Rape culture is the trivialization of rape, and it permeates our society to an alarming extent.

By all means, let’s improve mental health services in the US. Please. But if you want to talk about how to prevent rampage violence, s.e. smith is afraid you’re going to need to move on to other subjects.

Shooting after shooting, we’re confronted by the question of what it means to be a man. We refuse to answer—and we all suffer for it.

Sam Sattin wonders, how do we tell the difference between the revolutionary and the trivial?

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Must-read from the Good Men Project for all those interested in Boys Issues

Save Our Sons’ Emotional Intelligence: What Dads Can Do Now

and the companion piece:
12 Joyful Ways to Power Up Your Son’s Emotional Intelligence
(both by Mark Greene and his wife Dr. Saliha Bava)
Boys are from Mars, Parents are from Another Solar System
by Jennifer Flescher
Growing Up Angry No More: Raising Emotionally Intelligent Boys
by Kristian Orozco
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  • 7 months ago
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Fear of Heights & Changes

Each city offers visitors a custom solution for managing high anxiety.

My birthday gift coupon from Tiffany said, “My brother-in-law Mark is yours for 24 hours.”

Ken Goldstein and his father talk about all the changes of the past 75 years to get at the one that mattered most.

What I felt for her wasn’t love. It was more an addiction.

“What did it mean to be a person in this world?” 3-year-old Walter asks himself somewhere in his subconscious in this weekend’s brilliant story by Sarah Tourjee. Isn’t that the question we’re all asking?”

On their last trip to a neighborhood park, Jerry Mahoney finally gives in and lets his twin toddlers run free.

MJ Kelly learned that it’s easy to devalue emotional sensitivity, until you see it in your child’s eyes.

Liam Day explains the political controversy behind Vikings punter Chris Kluwe’s viral rant, and urges gay athletes to break the stereotype that pits homosexuality against masculinity.

The first time Dan Griffin asks a woman out in recovery, the intensity of the experience is overwhelming.

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An Oftentimes Different and Unheard Perspective... Infertility

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The Missing Voices of Men

Anthropologist Emilia Perujo discovered that infertile men are hard to hear, even if your thesis is about listening to them.

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Meeting My Sperm Donor Dad

Ben Sommer, conceived through alternative insemination, is a young man now and tells the story of deciding to meet his donor.

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Interview with a Male Infertility Rock Star

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A veteran of many treatments, Denny Ceizyk answers some infertility questions that many men keep to themselves.

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Flickers of Hope and Sorrow

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Robb Zimmerman speaks about the grief and confusion of two lost pregnancies.

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Think We Should Keep IVF Legal?

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Men need fertility treatments just as much as women, writes Lee Rubin Collins, so “personhood” amendments are about their rights, too.

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The Marginalization of an Infertile Man

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When Marcus Williams was ready to face his infertility, he had a hard time finding any fertility doctors willing to face it with him.

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The Happy Hour Miscarriage in Paradise

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How many times can you lose a child without even having one before things change?

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Dreams and Visions: On Being a Man After 3 Miscarriages in 20 Months

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Dave Sanfacon remains a father and a husband through the agonizing nightmare and another attempt at kids.

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Men Who Don’t Want Children: Do They Feel the Guilt?

Sylvia D. Lucas challenges the gendered double-standard that surrounds the choice to not have children.

Child-free men, whether they’re Dual-Income-No-Kids (DINK) “lifers” or just waiting until later to have kids, haven’t shared the focus of the barrage of attacks their female counterparts have endured since the advent of birth control. How do men without children get off so much easier … or do they?

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Loving Your Daughter Doesn’t Make You a Pedophile

Hugo Schwyzer wants fathers to stand up and show their daughters that they’re not afraid of our unhealthy culture of suspicion.

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Poem: "A Single Dad’s Morning Fight" By Jake Roesler

Jake Roesler on getting the kids up, going to school, and yogurt.

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How To Be A Man:Jason Sperber demands a redefinition of what it means to be masculine.

It’s OK to be loud, and play sports, and be rough—echoes of the traditional image of what a man is supposed to be—but what about the opposite? Is it OK to be quiet, and hate sports, and be gentle?


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The Horse Whisperer Gives Parenting Advice

“Make it difficult for the horse to do the wrong thing and easy to do the right one.” Oh, hey, that works for kids also.

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